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It has been a long winter, made longer by the fact that Adia could not reach any of her friends in the Nexus. When spring arrives and her PINpoint starts working again, she wastes little time in sending out a message.

Hello! This is Adia. Caspar and I were locked out of the Nexus until now. Please reply if you get this message and let me know how you're doing and if there's anything I can get you?

In the interest of efficiency, she sends it as a blind carbon copy to most of her Contact List.

((Feel free to tag once, play out a thread, or handwave your muse's reponse. Also, if you want me to know specifically that Adia can't/won't get a message, feel free to share. :) ))

Date: 2019-04-18 05:23 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Curious)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
Amelia doesn't mind the showing off at all. In fact, she's quite pleased to see that her lessons are going to good use. The braid looks wonderful on Adia and it's a perfect style for a lovely spring day. She smiles openly at her friends, then follows them into the booth.

"I am as well. I spent most of my time either in my apartment or the library. I could barely get anywhere in the snow and wind." But that's all past them now, and the rogue is quite ready to move on from it.

"I haven't ordered yet," she informs them as she waves a waitress off. Ordering can wait a few minutes while they catch up and get a chance to decide on what they'd like as a group. "But I want to hear all about your engagement. Adia said something about getting on your knees?" A beat, and she laughs softly. "Or something like that." Sorry, Caspar and Adia, but that's one of the many human traditions Amelia has simply never been exposed to in her life.

Date: 2019-04-20 05:38 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Happy Smile)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
"Is there a reason for getting on one knee?" Foreign customs are so strange sometimes. Amelia's heard a lot of things while she's been here, but being required to get on one knee to ask someone to be with you for the rest of their lives? That's a new, and very odd, one for her.

The ring is a wonderful distraction from her questions and thoughts about the traditions around proposing, though. She smiles brightly as she takes careful hold of Adia's hand, looking over the sparkling ring with its bright oranges with a palpable excitement. This is another part of the marriage tradition that people of Earth follow that she simply doesn't understand (though a few have attempted to explain it to her in the past), but it's one she can appreciate much more easily. A gift of some kind seems to be a common thread in traditions surrounding marriage in a great many cultures the rogue has encountered.

"It's beautiful. I've never seen anything like it." She smiles at Adia and then at Caspar as she releases Adia's hand, her lips tugging up into a grin as she sees the look on his face. Your excitement about your choice is very obvious, friend. "How did you choose something like this? Is there some significance to it?"

Date: 2019-04-21 05:29 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Discussion)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
Traditions so old that their origins have been forgotten aren't an uncommon thing, but this one in particular will probably bother Amelia for a while. It seems so strange that they would choose one knee or have to get on their knees at all. It'll be something for investigation at a later time, though, because they have pizza to order and she has her own world's traditions to explain.

"Usually it's simply agreed to between two people," she begins slowly. "Gifts are exchanged, but they have to have deep meaning to the people getting married. It's tradition that a gift represents what a person feels the other will bring not only to their life but the life the two of them are building together. For example, my father knew he would be inheriting the spice trading business my grandfather started eventually, so to show his dedication to including my mother and involving her in every step going forward, he had a custom ledger created for her. It was a beautifully crafted, leather-bound ledger that had symbols representing the both of them etched into the cover, but the true point was that pages inside were empty and he wanted her to help fill them."

It makes her smile to think of the gift now. It's been such a long time since she's told that particular story. Her mother was so proud of the work she'd done in that very book, and her father was ecstatic that she'd accepted and answered his call to stand at his side and not behind him.

As she shakes her head to clear away memories of the past, she laughs softly to herself. "Only some of this applies if the marriage is arranged by family, though. Gifts are often skipped in that case unless the couple to be married have known each other and been close for a long time. It's difficult to gift someone anything with true value and meaning if there's no connection between the giver and the receiver."

Mention of Hunter, and all of the small touches he included in the ring, make Amelia's smile widen. "Hunter makes beautiful art. I'm so glad he was able to make something that speaks to the both of you like this." That's the true reason to give a gift in the end, isn't it?

"Yes please," the rogue laughs in answer to Adia's question. "Did you want to have the same as last time we were here? Pepperoni, oregano, and basil, I believe it was? We can look at the menu for other options as well." Amelia may not be the most adventurous of pizza consumers, but she's enjoyed everything she's tried so far. If her friends have a suggestion, the rogue is happy to follow their lead.

Date: 2019-04-25 05:02 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Curious)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
"It could be all of those, if you really want," she jokes, winking in Caspar's direction. It's not as if Amelia doesn't go well beyond the call of tradition when it comes to her own gift giving. True, she doesn't build things with her own two hands for those she cares about, but giving the kind of gift that someone wants but never explicitly asked for often has the same kind of impact.

She nods in answer to Adia's question about gifts. "On my world, there's a tradition of giving gifts for meaningful occasions. Birthday, anniversaries, betrothals or engagements, and the rare celebrations that are similar to holidays on places like Earth. The idea of giving a gift simply because you want to isn't really done. It could be, but no one thinks about doing so." She shrugs a bit and smiles. "I like giving things to people I care about, so I always take the time to find something that they'll appreciate for as long as it lasts. Giving impractical gifts can be a challenge, but sometimes a gift stands out easily enough for me to choose it. Like the solar system painting I gave the two of you." That's one gift in particular she's very proud of having found.

"I met Hunter on the Plaza early last year. I was looking for advice and he was kind enough to stop and answer my question." Her smile warms as she thinks about the artist and all of the beautiful things he described to her when they spoke. "I'm glad he took the commission for the two of you. His work speaks for itself."

With their pizza chosen, Amelia flags down the waitress to get their pizza order in, her ginger ale replenished, and drink orders for her friends taken. The cheery, middle-aged woman seems to be very excited at having customers again, because the drinks are all back at the table in what feels like seconds. Amelia thanks the woman with a soft laugh then indulges in a long sip of her ginger ale with a content sigh.

"So," the rogue begins after everyone's had a sip of their drink, "I know this may seem sudden, but now that Winter's over and you were kind enough to invite me into your home, would you like to see mine when we're done with lunch? It's not as large and I can't promise it's as well kept as your cabin, but I feel the two of you are the best people to share my home with in its more finished form before I share it with anyone else." It's something they talked about before, but Amelia's very excited to show her friends what she's done with the things they gave her. Adia taught her how to keep her home clean and their gift of flatware has made it easier for the rogue to make sense of cooking for herself. Making her apartment into a home took time, but the couple sitting across the table from her helped make the idea a reality for her.

Date: 2019-05-06 06:18 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Happy Smile)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
"I struggle with the idea sometimes, which is why I always look for an occasion to give someone a gift." No matter how small the event may be, Amelia is happy call it out as a reason to give those she cares about something she already feels they deserve.

The rogue nods as the couple explain their connection to Hunter, and remind her of the incident with the witches. "Sometimes having someone you know and trust watch over you is all you need to feel safest," she comments with a small smile. "It's good that the two of you were able to find a balance that worked out so well." Hunter got someone to watch over him and Caspar got the gift he'd been dreaming of for Adia. A winning situation for all.

Amelia exhales a happy, relieved sigh when Adia accepts the invitation on her and Caspar's behalf. "It's still mostly the same," she comments, wanting to make sure Adia doesn't get her hopes up about it being some kind of resplendent place now, "but I've been replacing some of the things that were given to me when I moved in. I also got a small bookshelf to house all the books from the library that I borrow on a regular basis." Speaking of which...

Her cheeks flush a light pink as she adds, "I'm there even more often than I was before. I spent a lot of my time during the Winter in the library, in part to do research and in part because I couldn't always get back to my apartment at the end of the day. After I started helping several people find their books and... not get physical after being cooped up for days at a time," because fighting in a library isn't something even she can condone, "the librarians offered me a part-time position when I went back after Spring came. It's nothing extravagant, but I get to continue my research if no one needs my help finding something."

The job feels much like what she did the first few years she was learning the ins and outs of her family's business on her world. Helping people is the easy part and now that the hard part of learning where everything usually is in the library is done? It feels natural to simply take up the mantle of an assistant.

Date: 2019-05-13 08:43 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Subtle Grin)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
The contrast between Adia's excitement and Caspar's slightly grumpy response makes the rogue chuckle. The two are foibles to the other without even realizing it, and Amelia finds it incredibly endearing. She couldn't be happier for her friends, or the fact that they found each other several times over, than she is in this moment.

"There will always be a few people who can't follow the rules as they're written," she notes with a small smirk. "For all my disregard for them in various circumstances, I don't mind enforcing them in the library. The more people I help, the less likely it'll be that someone starts causing a scene." She pauses for a moment and leans in a little closer to murmur mischievously, "I'm very persuasive when I want to be. I'm sure I can talk at least a few trouble makers into better behavior."

Whether she's going to use scare tactics or sweet words will depend on the individual. So long as she gets results, Amelia doesn't care which one it has to be.

As the rogue leans back into her seat, the waitress arrives with their pizza. She sets it up on a little stand and offers each of the party members a plate with a bright "Enjoy!" before disappearing back into the restaurant. Amelia smiles and motions for her friends to have first pick of their slices.

"Can I ask you more about your wedding?" she asks as they all wait for their chosen slices to cool off. Her curious nature is getting the better of her again, but something as important as this feels like a thing Amelia should have more knowledge about to better support her friends. "All this talk of traditions has me wondering what an Earth wedding involves, other than the two people getting married, I mean."

Date: 2019-05-19 05:24 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Curious)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
Adia's slight flailing is silly and would earn a laugh if Amelia wasn't so concentrated on determining what questions to ask. The few bits of information that her friends offer give her a few good places to start, though.

"Are people always married by captains?" she asks. A beat, and she quickly adds, "Or is it anyone in a position of authority who can marry two people? I don't know much about the structure of government on Atlantis, so I may be missing a few possibilities of people who could perform this kind of ceremony." She offers a self-deprecating smile and then tries a bite of her pizza. Still a bit too warm to eat, which means the rogue can ask a few more questions while she waits.

"Is family important to have family at your side when you get married?" She directs the question at both of her friends, but her eyes linger on Caspar for a few extra seconds before she shifts her gaze comfortably between the two of them again. "It was traditional in Masarra to have as much of your family present as possible since the ceremony was most often held in the middle of a large celebration." Nothing brings a large group of people together better than a party filled with food, drink, and laughter.

She laughs softly before continuing. "I've never seen people become more comfortable with a family they've never met before than I have at the few weddings I've attended. Even my hard-headed brother managed to loosen up before promising himself to his wife at his party, despite the fact that he was saying even that very morning that he didn't want to go through with it."

Date: 2019-06-04 02:16 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Discussion)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
"Anyone can marry two people in Masarra," she says after taking a bite of her pizza. "A family member or friend, or someone similar to one of your priests, can perform the ceremony if that's what the people getting married would like. An official from the government must witness and sign the document to be filed for the marriage to be recognized legally, but that's more formality than requirement. If two people live and work together long enough, there's little difference between the relationship they have and an 'official' marriage." She shrugs as she pauses for another bite of pizza. "The importance of a legally recognized marriage is usually the economic gains. Those who get married solely because they love one another will often only take the extra step with the government if it's convenient."

The rogue pauses in her thoughts for a moment to clean her lips with a napkin, but anything she might have said falls away as she watches Adia speak. Dreams, that was a bad thing to ask, wasn't it? It wasn't her intention to bring up bad memories of Adia's family, but...

Her lips pull into a thin line as her friends move away from the posed question. Truly, she hadn't meant to bring down the mood, but it seems she managed it anyway. It's a skill Amelia wishes she didn't have, but there seems little way around it for now. Exhaling a small, silent sigh, she nods and catches onto another question to at least try to move them on from the pain so clearly associated with family and weddings.

"What kind of party is held after a wedding ceremony? Is it something that's always bigger than the ceremony itself?" It feels like the answer to the question would be obvious, so she quickly adds, "Depending on the station and popularity of the couple being married, people in Masarra will either celebrate for a short while together right after the ceremony or hold a larger party a day or two later. The celebration for the Duke of Masarra's wedding, for example, was held three days after the wedding and the entire city - visiting merchants, travelers, and ship workers included - were invited to it."

Date: 2019-06-12 08:21 pm (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Shy Smile)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
"Making it official with the local government is definitely a way to make it noticeable," she teases gently. She sees you getting smug over there, Caspar. Don't think Amelia can't get past some slight awkwardness for a good tease, especially when it involves some of her closest friends.

The rogue nods as she thinks about the open space between the cabins. "It seems like it would be a good space to host a lot of people," she agrees. "And if your friend enjoys planning, I'm certain she'll make it everything the two of you could want and more." A beat, and she adds with a smile, "I hope she doesn't get too excited and go farther than what the two of you are looking for." People who plan parties often do that on her world and the rogue can easily see their friend doing the same.

Pausing for a moment, Amelia quickly finishes off her first slice of pizza and goes for a second. Dreams this is so much better than she remembered after a Winter with only the basics available to her at any given time.

Now that much of the awkwardness has been cut by the change in subject, it's time to ask something the rogue is really interested in. "After the two of you are married on Atlantis, will you be hosting a party here in the Nexus as well? I have a feeling I'm not the only person who would love the chance to celebrate the occasion with you."

Date: 2019-06-25 12:16 am (UTC)
rogueinladysclothing: (Hopeful)
From: [personal profile] rogueinladysclothing
Caspar always seems to be ahead of any issue that might arise where Adia is involved. The rogue understands why, of course - she does the same for everyone she cares about when the option is available. Still, his dedication is admirable and it warms her smile as she lets the topic settle at that. They've got this, Amelia decides, no reason to worry Adia any more when it's already taken care of.

"It's all right if you don't want to," she notes with a smile. "The decision is completely in your hands and no one will force you into something you don't want. If you simply want a quiet conversation with everyone you care about in turn after the wedding, then you should do that." There will still be gifts given as close to the wedding as possible, but Amelia highly doubts anyone would have a problem with Adia and Caspar taking time to themselves after they get married. The important thing is that their friends are finally doing what they've always wanted with one another. Little else matters after that.

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